Squish's Mom

I just realized, I don't even know her name. The way Squish talks about her is amazing. He has so much respect and love for his mother, and I know missing her is a daily pain. He has told me that nothing could ever compare to the pain of losing her. It's been just over a year. I can't even remember how she died. Was it bone cancer for her as well?
Why bring this up? Well I sent Squishy a message flat out telling him that I really wish he'd take advantage of the atonement and learn to heal and that I thought his mom was watching him and wishing for that too. Was that out of line? That's really how I feel. Every time we've talked about her I get chills and can't help but think she's waiting for him. I just don't understand how he can love her and miss her so much and not be doing everything in his power to be able to be with her again. Is it just too soon? I know his past is dark. Darker than anything I've ever experienced x10. But that makes no difference in God's eyes. He knows beginning to end. He has all power! He already knows exactly how Colton feels, exactly what he's going through. He can see. He knows. So dang it why can't Squish see that?? It's not my responsibility, he's not a project, but I care. Grrr.
If he doesn't want to do anything about it, Fine. I'll still care, I'll just be sad.